Category Archives: Step 2: Dealing with Porn, Affairs & Sex

Specifics about Sexual Addiction

Will Your Wandering Thoughts Destroy You?

I remember, decades ago, being told in Driver’s Ed that “where your eyes go, the car will follow.” It may not be true once you’re a seasoned driver, but certainly is for “newbies” behind the wheel. I don’t know why that old warning popped into my mind today, but it does remind me of something…

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Freedom Beyond Imagination

None who have always been free can understand the terrible fascinating power of the hope of freedom to those who are not free. — Pearl S. Buck My husband struggled with sexual addiction for many years. The recovery process was long and difficult and slow. There were many times he thought about giving up but,…

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Regaining A Wife’s Trust

To feel safe and able to let trust and respect grow, a woman needs to feel that she is chosen, seen, heard, pursued and irreplaceable. She needs to know that she can absolutely count on her husband. Discovering that her husband struggles with sexual addiction creates the exact opposite feelings. There is no part of…

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Whoa. . . the Answer?

The following is an excerpt from our book “Now Choose Life! One Man’s Journey Out of the Grip of Pornography” by Janet K Wheeler ©2013 Bruce’s Story . . . I was born and raised in a quiet little town in New York State just a stone’s throw from the Pennsylvania border. At one time…

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Can Trust be Restored after Porn?

We’ve probably all heard sermons and marriage  seminars talk about the respect and love passage in Ephesians 5:33, but the quandary is how to live by those words when a husband is involved in the unrespectable behaviors of sexual addiction and, because of them, his wife feels anything but loved?  And . . . why…

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