Category Archives: Step 2: Dealing with Porn, Affairs & Sex

Specifics about Sexual Addiction

Finding Truth

No matter how cautious or analytical we’ve been, we have ALL believed lies. In fact, without knowing it, much of our life has been ruled, at least in part, by untruths. Although Satan is the initial author of all lies, most of them are relayed to us via one of two sources: either from the…

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Is it Love or Just Lust?

Most of us hold to a basic premise that love is “good,” lust is “bad.” But sexual addiction and society’s views about sex have a way of blurring the two and making it difficult to discern one from the other. How can you tell if what you’re feeling is love or just lust? First, let’s…

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An Elephant in the Room

Many couples are tip-toeing around an elephant in their marriage. It’s big. It doesn’t belong there. But nobody’s talking about what it is or what to do about it. That elephant is sexual addiction. Even before it is seen and named, most wives already sense that there is an invisible wedge growing between her and…

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You’ve Been Lied To!

I’ve become convinced that the enemy of our souls actually has very little power. All he can do is tell us lies. We are the ones that take his words and put action behind them. Satan can’t help but lie. That’s what he does. In fact, the book of John says “there is NO truth…

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End the Demand for Sex Trafficking

What an interesting weekend. Saturday morning my husband and I were invited to display information about our sexual addiction recovery ministry at a local End the Demand forum presented by the Whatcom Coalition Against Trafficking. I had met the leader of the Coalition only the weekend before at a woman’s retreat. When she found out…

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