Category Archives: Step 1: Understanding Addiction

General information pertinent to all addictions

The Answers Wives Are Looking For

We’re excited to announce that our second book, When Sex Causes Heartbreak, has just been released and is now available on www.amazon.com! Learning that someone you love is involved in sexual sin is heart-breaking and confusing. Even though an estimated 30-40% of Christian men struggle with some sort of sexual compulsion or addiction that is…

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FREE e-book – 2 days only

Earlier this year we published a book about my husband Bruce’s struggle with sexual addiction and his victorious recovery journey. The book has been described as “insightful, heartbreaking and hopeful!” Its powerful vignetttes and easy-to-understand professional commentary will bring hope and understanding to both strugglers and those who seek to walk beside them. FREE BOOK:   …

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The Push and Pull

Humans seem governed by the “law” of push and pull. It is rare that we make significant changes in our lives without being pushed into it by the consequences of staying where we are. It is certainly true in recovery, but it is also a factor in almost every other positive change we make in…

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When Trying Harder Isn’t Enough

There are so many delicate lines in recovery. Many things appear to be healthy and freeing—even necessary—but just a few steps away, on the other side of the imaginary line, they turn harmful and burdensome. Just a little too much of a good thing can actually be very damaging. Effort, itself, has one of these…

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Whoa. . . the Answer?

The following is an excerpt from our book “Now Choose Life! One Man’s Journey Out of the Grip of Pornography” by Janet K Wheeler ©2013 Bruce’s Story . . . I was born and raised in a quiet little town in New York State just a stone’s throw from the Pennsylvania border. At one time…

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