Opening the Prison Doors
“Before you can break out of prison, you must realize you are locked up.” – Anonymous So often we are think that our struggles are just because of “the way we were made.” We think we’re addicted, or depressed, or full of anger because we were created that way. But as David acknowledged in…
Sexual Anorexia?
Q. Our problem is different—we don’t have sex. It doesn’t feel right, but I guess we can eliminate sexual addiction as the root cause since there is no sex . . . right? A. Wrong. Consider the fact that there are two main types of inappropriate relationships with food: one is bulimia (overeating/purging); the other…
Looking for Magic; Finding Miracles
Sometimes we get the idea that miracles are instantaneous, and sometimes they are. But just as often, they take time. A new baby is a miracle—but it must grow and mature for nine months before it’s ready to be revealed. A broken bone, that knits itself back together in six weeks is a miracle. And…
Just Boys Being Boys?
Today’s blog post is another excerpt from When Sex Causes Heartbreak – What every wife needs to know about affairs, pornography and the sexless marriage due out late this Fall. Q. When I try to confide in my friend she says things like “boys will be boys,” “men are more sexual” and “men need variety—they…
A Very Present Help
“When you’ve done everything you can do, that’s when God will step in and do what you can’t do” —2 Corinthians 12:10 This popular paraphrase of a passage in 2 Corinthians is plastered all over the internet. It has some wonderful truth in it: God has our best interest at heart.…

