The Secret to Success

It’s so easy to get discouraged in this battle for freedom. We try every trick and technique that we’ve learned, and yet we still fail miserably at times. It can feel pretty hopeless. We hear of others who have gained a measure of victory and we immediately begin to wonder what’s wrong with US. Are…

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The One BIG Secret to Living a Victorious Life

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Oh, to live the “victorious life” . . . to be on top of things . . .to feel like we are “winning” at the game of life. Doesn’t that sound grand? But most of the people I talk to aren’t quite feeling that.  They’re discouraged. They’re feeling a little lost. Some even admit to…

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I Screwed Up. What Now?

Periodic slips and failures are not unusual, especially in early recovery. If you find yourself in that place, remember the 4 “R’s” of dealing with a relapse: RESIST wasting your time and energy telling yourself you’re a loser or a hopeless sinner. It’s not productive. On the other hand, don’t try to convince yourself that…

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Finding the Way

Addiction recovery (or life, for that matter) is full of fine lines. A little too much of a good thing can be harmful. We wrestle with how much is OK. Where is that line, anyway? Have we already crossed it without even realizing it? One of the most challenging balancing acts in recovery relates to…

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Ever Closer

“I may not be there yet, but I’m closer than I was yesterday.” —Natalia Campbell It’s easy to get weary of recovery. Stretching, risking, praying, analyzing, trying. It’s exhausting at times. Sometimes we wonder if we’re making any progress at all—especially when we have a slip or find ourselves falling into old patterns of thinking.…

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