Many people have trouble with the word “addiction.” It conjures up all kinds of ugly images. The very thought of it is so negative that many strugglers balk at accepting the label of addict.
Nobody intentionally sets out to become addicted. The process is slow and subtle. Little by little substances or activities that were once a source of enjoyment begin to gain increasing control over your life. At some point the thing you used to WANT to do begins to feel more like something you HAVE to do. But, still, you believe (or at least hope) that somehow you can stop any time. If you just get in the right “space” you’ll be able to do it. You cling to the idea that you still have some control. And, as long as you can do that, you aren’t an addict, right?
Over the years we have worked with a number of individuals with sexual struggles that have gotten so stuck on the question of whether they are an addict or not, that they have missed some great opportunities that would have moved them toward healing and freedom. The sad part is . . . it didn’t really matter . . . it was all semantics. It doesn’t matter if you call it sexual addiction, compulsive behaviors, hypersexuality, excessive lust or sin . . . if it is causing trouble in your life, relationship, or self esteem . . . it’s a problem that needs to be dealt with.
Don’t let the enemy rob you of the freedom and blessings God has for you and your family by telling you it’s “no big deal” or “you’re not as bad as some of the others.” Don’t let mere words or definitions keep you from embracing ALL of God’s best for your life.
“So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law; but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me.” — Romans 7:21-22 (NIV)
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