Be the Man You WANT to Be With Gratitude
What’s so magical about gratitude? How could something as simple as being thankful help us to not be that man anymore? So often I have heard men that struggle with addiction—especially sexual addiction—say that they don’t want to be THAT man anymore. They want to be done with the secrets, the failures, and continually hurting…
Which One Will Make You Happier, Love or Lust?
Lust is exciting. If you’re at all tuned in to popular movies, television commercials and the conversations of your co-workers in the lunch room, it sure sounds like it’s the main highway to happiness. Remember the last time you heard a guy talk about the “hottie” they met last weekend, or the racy video they…
I Don’t Want to Be THAT Man Anymore
Are you tired of being that man? Are you tired of a life full of hiding and secrets and hurting the people you care about? Are you tired of being the guy that continually struggles and regularly fails? Do you yearn to step out of that skin and become the guy you always wished you…
The Simple Secrets of a Successful Recovery
Addiction recovery can easily become overwhelming. There seems to be so much to learn; so much to do, so much to feel. It can often be a long process, but we may not recognize that most of the work that needs to be done is centered around just two simple goals. SEEKING SIMPLE Humans have…
Comparison is the Quickest Way to Lose Joy
Comparison. It’s almost as automatic as breathing. We continually look at how we’re measuring up to those around us. Are they taller? Heavier? Do they have more money than us? Are they more successful? Even as a writer and blogger it’s easy to fall into that habit. How many readers do my fellow bloggers have?…