Victorious Holidays

Living Free      Thanksgiving is only days away and Christmas will be here in little over a month. Holidays can be particularly challenging times for those struggling with compulsive behaviors. More family interactions, more activities, more expenses and more expectations can increase stress and escalate cravings and acting out.      Even if past holidays…

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The Most Dangerous Thoughts

You deserve better!      Here we are, facing yet another weekend. Many people tell us that weekends are especially difficult for them. It’s the time when their addictive behaviors often get really out of control.        There are a lot of possible reasons for this — more free time, less structure, deeply entrenched and well–practiced…

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Spinning Out of Control

Finding solid ground      It’s been a rough week. I’ve been sick and very, very dizzy for several days.      Dizzy is such an awful feeling. There seems to be nothing solid to stand on while the world is spinning around you. The least turn of your head or quick movement can send you reeling…

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The Greatest Barrier

It’s not what we think      In a rare departure from my usual morning routine, I spent a few hours today reading Michael John Cusick’s new book Surfing for God: Discovering the Divine Desire Beneath the Sexual Struggle.       Even though I’ve read a LOT of books on sexual addiction over the years, I’m…

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The Journey to Freedom

Did we give up?     Really? Only one post in the past year? Where in the world have we been? Have we given up proclaiming the hope of freedom from sexual addiction?     NOT AT ALL!     In fact, I’ve been doing a lot of writing this past year . . . just not here…

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